Best Wishes!

Hello to you, to you, my friend! I hope that my wishes meet you in a state of joy and fulfillment. We've all deserved a celebrational break and now that the glow of the holidays is gently fading, many of us are wondering... what next?

I am too wishing the best for this year! But what is that, actually? What is that I am wishing for, truly? The immediate urge is to 'catch up' with the time we indulged in "doing nothing" and frantically plan for all those empty boxes in the agenda to be filled with meaningful actions, as any responsible adult would do. But what if instead of being responsible we would prioritize kindness and gentleness? When you are looking at the agenda, what if instead of ticking boxes you would be deliberately making choices? What if we allowed ourselves to slow down and indulge?

There's always going to be something to be done, a dream to chase, a subject to explore, yet is there enough space that we are making for ourselves in our own lives? So what is actually pulling the sleeve that requires you to make it a priority? And what if that priority was not on a list? What is the one thing that you would like to focus on one day at a time?

Since we've stepped into 2023 I have this distinct impression that a sort of veil was lifted. That there is uncontrollable ease available and that this is going to be a year to release control. I mean, if I were to consider the anecdotes of New Year's Eve - the champagne bottle popped 2 minutes before midnight, the kids ran on the street with the bottle while we (the parents) were left deserted on the terrace, the sparkles would not light up on time, the cake disappeared before I knew there was one, the boys snatched the fortune cookies and we ended up having a whole heated up discussion about it - it's clear to me that expectations are not met this year!

So what if your wishes for this year will not be your expectations as well, but your sweet moments of daydreaming your life into existence? Would you wish for what you're saying you desire right now if you knew that your wishes may never come true? Because here's the secret... when you wish for something, the Universe listens, but you'll have to be clear that your desire is yours and burning, regardless of how and when and... you are willing to put in the effort and hold your part of the deal.

On this note, what is the one unacknowledged desire that is vibrating in your world? That's my take on the best wish!

Hugs, cuddles and giggles,

Selena

PS. Remember the invitation to Happy Shine Box? On the 14th of January 2023, an online workshop experience! You can book your seat on paypal.me/selenashine €60 - kindly mention your full name and the title of the class. Please remember that this 2.5h online workshop requires thorough preparation in advance. All details will be provided via e-mail 24h before the start of the event.